my day ^^ 311010..24th day of my 20th years old

Today i woke up at around 10am,

i so tired last night and slept earlier...

just wanna upload photo for this post~~

A Wedding Ceremony of a couple of Indonesian

after the bride and the bridegroom meet up, they kiss each others....sweet^^

later on they when back to the bride's house for eating^^

after that i have stuff to do,

so i can't watch the ceremony already....

my aunty and uncle come and fetch me out~~

they bring me to attend there prize giving ceremony.

for the direct sales.....which i din't actually interested much~~

they are sweet...my uncle is cold~~lol

i'm wearing my high heels which i think got around 4 inches out for whole day,

i think is a good training for myself^^

guess what is this???

let me told you,

that's wisky + soda^^

my uncle made it and he cheat me that,

it's chinese tea....lol

but taste nice^^ "Like"...

~~THE END~~

F.I.M.A.G.E^^

Today i have attended a teacher training course in Sek Ren Sri Nobel,Kelana Jaya,

i woke up at 6:30am,

because i need to be there around 8:15am,

some more it was a rainy day today morning,

it really nice for sleep.

Once i step into the school,

i feel strange,

i think because the environment make me feel so,

i was lost and asked people only know the place of the training,

i took the lift and go down to basement 2,

finally,i had reached there.

I meet up with miss Elaine,

and also the principle, Michelle,

both of them are so friendly and welcome me with a big heart,

i started fell warm...

i also had meet up with some of the newbie school teacher for 2011 too.

Not too late, the training course started,

The title: Proactive Learners BE Responsible Leaders.

i was wondering,

would it be so boring or just like the normal seminar that i attended before????

Many questions pop up from my mind......

The presenter of this talk is called GREG...

and American~~

i like his slang of saying english..

it was fantastic..

so attractive for me to listen to him,

he taught us a lot of new info and useful knowledge in teaching and controlling the classroom,

all this really needed by us as a teacher.

He had told us that,

the main things to stop us from learning new things is FIMAGE,

What is FIMAGE??

Fear of image,

image actually stop us from learning things,

and make us feel scare to try out.

this feeling will start built up since we are 9 years old.

The second things we learned were the function of left and right brain,

from there we need to know the what should we learn and how we can train our brain.

he said we should appreciated that we have brain,

because that is the organ that make us keep learning.

He also gave us a test on our learning styles,

i think it really help us a lot,

this also help us to spot the types of student,

and we can use the right approached to reach the student to the learning objective.

What i can concluded that for my day were:

knowledgeable,

enjoyable,

achievable...

THANKS GREG^^

医院。。

“医院” 这两字里我很久了，

记得上次我去医院是五年前的事，

上次我和外婆一起去探望我生病的小表妹，

今天我也去了一趟医院。。。

大约四点钟左右，

我从家里来到了四姨的家，

我姨丈的父母，

他们进了医院。。

他们当我小小的时候，

都有疼爱过我。。

今天我踏入了PANTAI医院。。

来到了“公公”的病房。。

他正躺病床上，

他之前被送进ICU。。

现在她出来了。。

他要求我四姨，

煮“猪肠粉”其实是河粉。。

给他吃，我四姨煮了。。

当热腾腾的粉汤放在他的面前，

我从他的眼里，

看到了泪水，

80 多岁的老人家，

老了，

就只有这么小的要求，

就满足了。。。

过后，

我们也来到了六楼，

探望“婆婆”。。

他也病倒了，

“公公”知道“婆婆”也进院了。。

他说了一句话：“为什么我们那么衰？”

其实，

人老了，

就是会有很多病痛。。

记得，

我刚踏入“公公”的房门，

他一直看着我。。

为什么有一个陌生的面孔出现。。

他的心理一定这样想。。。

过后，

我也告诉他，

我是“雯雯”（客家话）。。

他开始有印象了。。。

他也露出了微笑。。。

后记：

我会在想，

我老后，

我的子孙会这样关心我吗？

我要有一个怎样的晚年？

我的老伴会像一开始的时候一直守护到我老吗？

我有能力照顾他吗，当我也老了的时候？。。。

French~~

Bonjour!!!

Is the first word that i learn in my French class...

I really appreciated my dear friend, Chea Yuen...

She is the one who invited me to learn French with her in YMCA,

this is the first time i din't refuse the invitation of friend to learn somethings,

still remember i have no money to pay for the first level fees at that time,

she is the one willing to pay for me and i pay back to her later on...

Time fast so fast,

i have attended the 30hours of level one French class,

and i have got my certificate of attendances,

i can't believe that i have made it.

Actually i'm quite blur in the first few class,

luckily Chea Yuen guide me so well,

and she is willing to have extra tuition for me before the test.

The most great thing is i can translate the English version of dialogue to French,

that is the first time i check word by word and done it well,

i have found that,

if i done it by my heart,

it really work out.

I love French,

i will continue and learn it well in my coming 2nd level...^^

p/s: The word that i like the most in French is " J'adore".....^^

FRIENDS~~~~

Such a long time i din't think about this question:

Who is your TRUE FRIEND ?

Still remember when i was in primary school and secondary school,

i keep finding my true friends,

i am a friendly person,

i have a lot of friends,

if i you really want me classified them into my true friend,

i can say no one,

but maybe i am a true friend of one of them,

is so cruel i say so,

it is so hurt to say so too...

But, many things have stopped me from finding the true friend,

i don't want to be hurt anymore,

i don't want to be sad of the friendship stuff anymore,

i have find another ways to define my friendship,

but,it is positive and make me comfortable..

i just wanna be myself,

and i treat all my friends equally,

i treat them with my "H.E.A.R.T"

If you are my friend,

if you have feel it,

if you feel that i'm your true friend,

i appreciated and i glad to have you as my friend^^

穿高跟鞋的女人。。。

今天下班后，

JENNIFFER兴致勃勃摇了个电话给我，

问我要不要去吃螃蟹。。

没有太多的想法，

我就答应了。

放工后，

我回到家没多久她就来接我了，

我们四个Naterlie, Susan, Jenniffer and Yvonne 就出发了。

（其实我妈妈唠叨我~~~LOL）

我们就来到甲洞的“鱼虾蟹”。。

开始了我们的美味大餐。。

我们叫了2kg的螃蟹。。

真的好吃到，

没有话讲。。

过后我们还有下半场，

我们原本打算看Eat,Pray,Love..

结果还是不成，

我们看了抱抱俏佳人。。

我朋友说，

他是票房毒药，

但我却花了RM21 来观看，

不要问我为什么，

说起来故事就长。。

别问，也别说。。。

看了后，

我的观后感是：

1. 为什么人总是要口是心非？

2. 穿起高跟鞋的女人，表面成熟，内心脆弱。。

3.当情侣伤害对方的时候，其实他们都会为自己找借口，说是为对方好。。是真的吗？

爱情，

是一门用一生都修不完的科。。

但愿，

我能找到好的归属，

被人疼爱。。

这是每个女人的梦想。。。

251010~~19th day after my big day^^

Today i stay in my house for almost whole day,

i when to pasar with my popo..

still remember last time i used to go to pasar with her every weekend..

now,

she is getting older..

last time she hold my small hand,

now,

i'm holding her arm when she is walking with me...

I like to talk to her,

She care me,

She worry about me,

She is my popo^^

I also make myself to clean my bedroom..

it was so dirty...

i always feel it is dirty,

although i clean it everyday...

i drive my old WIRA,

just like my daddy taught me..

it's work...

i'm so happy and i'm get used to it..

what i less is just CONFIDENT......^^

My Mind:

Sometimes i will think of you,

Sometimes i will try to forget,

Sometimes i will try to wake up from my dreams....

铁石心肠

今天朋友也刊出了同样题目的网志。。

但我的状况是不同的，

最近，

都被家事干扰着。。

不是我家事，

但是，

别人的。。

也许有人认为我多管闲事。。

但此事不同别事，

我自认忍耐性最好，

但今天，

破工了。。。

我今天当众破口大骂她一场，

验证了，

她是欺善怕恶的人，

但，

我今天忍无可忍了。。。

别以为我好欺负。。

我也不是什么好东西。。

好欺负的呢。。。

只是替“姨姨”不值。。

看在“姨姨”的份上。。

我觉得是教训你的时候了。。

#@$%^@#$%^&**%%$

哇。。

舒服多了！！！！

铁石心肠。。

是对的。。^^

遇回他~~

今天，

去了朋友的派对。。

也可以说是聚会。。

叙别了两年。。

我在这里遇回他。。

这次看见他，

没有以前的那种感觉了。。

曾经有很喜欢他。。

曾经有很讨厌他。。

曾经。。。曾经。。。

想回去以前学生时代的自己，

是多么的单纯，

又开心有伤心。。。

很喜欢听他唱那首歌。。

但，只是纯纯的暗恋。。

都已经过去了。。

从来就没有那么坦白的说出自己。。

但，我释怀了。。。

也很感谢他，

以前的讽刺，折磨，坦白。。

造就了今天的我。。

我心存感激。。^^

宣泄。。。

我一向来都是一个很正面的人。。

可是，

人的忍耐，

是有极限的，

所谓人不犯我，我不犯人。

不是一次了，

也不是第二次了，

我一直告诉自己，

要忍耐，要忍让，

可是不能，

我的底线到了。。。

无聊的阿姨，

如果你没事情干，

就找些事情干吧！！！

不要做“铁扇公主”加盐加醋，

煽风点火，

虽然，

我知道那是你的本性与强项。。

我不是小孩，

当初无力反抗的小孩，

我是有思想，有想法，有头脑的小姐了。。。

嘴巴是上天赐给你的，

请善于利用以及好好珍惜。。。

谢谢！

20102010 特别的日子？？

数字，

是可爱的玩意儿。。

当不同的数拼凑抽在一起。。

就变得很有趣了。。

人，

也一样。。

每个人有不同的性格。。

不同的思想。。

不同的观念。。

不同的兴趣。。

不同的喜好。。

但是，

当拼凑在一起时，

就会成为不同的个体了。。

今天，

我呆在家。。

把我的睡房兼书房。。

整理了一番。。

但始终觉得，

还是不够整齐与干净。。

但，我已经尽我所能完成到最好了。。

面子书，

让我观察到人性百态。。

如有时间，

你呆在面子书前一天，

你会发觉人的生活是多姿多采的，

人的情绪在每个时段也随着变化，

可能局因如此人才显得特别。

男人，

你到底是什么玩意儿？

我觉得你比女人跟难以捉摸。。

个难以猜测。。。

当你在追求一个女生时。。。

你是多么的温柔，

多么的体贴，

多么的肯付出，

有时，

女生的任性，

是你们宠出来的。。

但，

一旦到手后，

你就变得爱理不理。。

单身，

你还是最好。。

自由自在，

无拘无束。。

草于：20102010 1731 ^^

第一学期成绩。。。第七天

今天无意间。。

就打开了我学校的网站。。

看见成绩发布的消息。。

我一页一页的点击进去。。

最后来到了我的成绩页面。。

啊！！！！

English for oral communication A-

Psychology of Education C+

Learning skill for distance learner B+

真是甲乙丙。。。什么都有。。

内心有一点伤心。。

我好希望每一课都拿甲级。。

这样我就可以把贷学金转换成奖学金了。。

接下来的科目不可以再松懈下来了。。。

一定要加油！！！

决定。。改变 第六天

今天，

眼睛张开第一件事就是问自己。。

是时候改走决定了。。

心中的答案有了。。

接下来就是行动。。

我拿起我的手提电话。。

按下了这个号码。。

电话接到了他那里。。

我很肯定地告诉他。。

我接受了。。

接受了这份工作。。

一份让我改变人生的工作。。

过后，

我也拨了另一通电话。。

可是没人接。。

我就传了一个简讯。。

通知他，我不能接受他的工作。。

真是有人欢喜有人忧。。。

世界就是如此。。

短短的几分钟。。

就能有如此的改变。。

这是我在这个月里学到的东西。。

也改变了我。。

我人生的每一步，

都得自己去开拓，

加油。。加油。。

爸爸的逼迫。。。第五天

今天一早，

我就到学校去交申请表格，

去到那里的书记嫌弃我赴英的文件不清楚，

结果就被逼再去复印过，

没关系啦。。。求职是这样的。。。

完成了整个过程，才早上十点。。

我就回到家了，

在家懒惰了一个小时，

我才去上班。。

上班不到半小时。。

我就接到了一个电话。。

一个改变我的未来我的电话。。。

SEKOLAH RENDAH SRI NOBEL的MISS ELAINE。。。

他说该校OFFER 我在该校当小学老师。。

一个让我欣喜又带点忧虑的消息。。。

欣喜的是我是时候改变自己。。

忧虑的是我学要面对重重的困难。。

这是上天要给我的考验吗？

给我成长的机会吗？

我不应再成为温室里的小花。。。

小花是时候长大了。。

成为大树了。。。

我必须相信这是改变的机会。。

加油。。加油。。

111010。。。第四天

我今天一早九点，

就到中心去开门了。。

原以为由学生会早上来。。

结果没有。。

我就利用这短短的时间把中心打扫一般。。

十点他们都来了。。

就这样我就从早上九点工作到晚上八点，

放工后，

我到瑞华家去拿了我拜托他帮我拿的表格。。

过后就回来了。。

咳~~普通的生活`。。

我要赶紧把表格填妥。。

交上去。。提早实现我的理想。。

母校，你等我。。我要来咯！！

让自己进步的十个习惯

⒈永远不说不可能。

⒉凡事第一反应找方法，不是找借口。

⒊养成记录习惯，不太依赖脑袋。

⒋每天出门照镜子，给自己自信的微笑。
⒌每天自我反省。

⒍用心倾听，不打断别人的话，作个倾听高手。

⒎节俭定期存钱。⒏遵守诚信，说到做到。

⒐时刻微笑待人处事。

⒑开会/上课坐前排。

My wOrDs 091010...0141 (101010)

Kaizen (Japanese for "improvement" or "change for the better")

refers to philosophy or practices that focus upon continuous improvement of processes in manufacturing, engineering, supporting business processes, and management.

It has been applied in healthcare, psychotherapy, life-coaching, government, banking, and many other industries. When used in the business sense and applied to the workplace, kaizen refers to activities that continually improve all functions, and involves all employees from the CEO to the assembly line workers.

It also applies to processes, such as purchasing and logistics, that cross organizational boundaries into the supply chain. By improving standardized activities and processes, kaizen aims to eliminate waste.

Kaizen was first implemented in several Japanese businesses after the Second World War, influenced in part by American business and quality management teachers who visited the country. It has since spread throughout the world and is now being implemented in many other venues besides just business and productivity.

Above is a Word that my lecturer--Sir Kalishvaran told me...

He believed on this word and it help in his life~~

From this he also discuss about our time management..

I like the way he differentiate the 24 hour into 3 parts and there is 8 hours in one part...

This make me feel that actually i have a lot of time...

We should manage well the time....

to success in my life^^

20th second day^^

Today early in the morning...

my father send me to Petaling Jaya Learning Center to start my second semester...

i was wondering how my lecturer will look like...

are they will be like last semester make me boring and feel running away from the center???

All this questions are appear in my mind...

Haha..

Finally, all the lecturer din't make me disappointed..

They are so well in deliberate the lesson and make knowledgeable...

Just that there is one miss out things is the cafeteria din't open..

make me starved from morning 8am to 2:30pm...

Haiz...

Life is always like this ..

there must be a thing miss out...

I like Sir Kalish told me about the "Khaizan" spiritual....

Sir,i will look into it...^^

I can differentiate my day into 3 parts....

The second part is happened after my class..

i walk to Jaya One to wait for my dear friend, Choon Khai to fetch me...

He also brought me another 3 best friends, Suzhen, Jeffrey and Chwen hui...

We are going to celebrate my belated Birthday...

So kind they are..

My mission is to dress up and wear nicely for my dinner with them..

After around more than 2 hour of searching i had found my dress..

It is found and match by Suzhen...

Her sense of trend is so good..

My dearly friends also paid for my bill...

Thank you so much my dearly friends......

i also bought myself a 5 inches high heels..

wow...it was so challenging for my legs...

but i have make it and perform it nicely....^^(i mean walk with this high heels)

The third part will be we go to The Curve to have our dinner...

We ate Italianese....it was an Italian food restaurant ..

It was so nice...

I had eat spaghetti with big shrimps...

Yummy~~~

After that we went for a walk in The Street...

There were so many stall located there and sold many nice and unique goods....

One of my friend Kenny also came to meet us up although he was so tired after his work...

Thanks a lot...

My dearly friends......You all have made my day^^

20th birthday^^

Today i wake up at around 8am..

open up my eyes..

and feel nothings...

Actually there are no different between birthday day and normal day..

the sun still rises up and the moon still appear..

I'm a person who cannot make my life easy..

I make my day full of things to do..

Sometimes i found that things that already planned..

Still can't gone smoothly..

Whereas somethings which are not in the plan and run or progress better than the planned one^^

I can't list down what i have done on my first day of 20th..

But be sure that it is somethings meaningful and transforming action for my life and future..

Everyone is chasing their perfect life and hope it will go smoothly..

Dreams for me there are not only a dreams..

i working hard on it and hope i won't indulge..

Still remember 10th years old birthday..

i was just a little girl..

i'm active in school activities...

enjoying school life..

enjoying playing games with my friends..

Quite a memorable moment i hope i won't forgot forever..

Now i'm stepping into the 20th years world...

i hope i won't regret when i was 30th..

and there are somethings are mine and i am somebody too...

That's me YVONNE..my new identity^^

081010...0000

A Brand New starting for me~~

If i got the power to press a reverse button for my life...

I will not press it...

Because i appreciate and happy with what i have got for last 20 years..

081010

This date is an important date for me..

i wanna start everything today...

from this second onward....

CHENG YI WEN

You are adult and mature already...

You should be independent...

You should realize your dreams...

You should find someone to love and take care of you...

Everything will start here..

Start today...

Tw3nty St3ps.....Footprints ^^

My wOrDs 071010...0201

Opportunities,

For those who are ready....

If there are no opportunities,

We should get ready ourselves,

By the time Opportunities are here,

We are ready to be a Successful Person...^^